Becoming friends on this site

I really don't understand why it's necessary for someone to have a paid/gifted membership in order to initiate a friendship request. No, I don't want to spend $1 to flirt with someone, nor do I want t
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Jenice:
Both had 3 trucks, 4wheelers, flat screens, a fully furnished apartment, thousands in savings, and outting all the time.
(12 September 2016)

Jenice:
I got promotions at work and I pushed her hard to pursue a career.
(12 September 2016)

Jenice:
We were both young I was 23 she was 19. We both had very little in the beginning, but little did I know that was gonna change.
(12 September 2016)

Jenice:
So alittle over 5 years ago I met this girl.
(12 September 2016)

Adrianne:
How to make a chick move without having any question or regrets?
(12 September 2016)

Adrianne:
We are still in love but its just not working out.
(12 September 2016)

Adrianne:
We have grown apart so much that we both know we dont want the same things.. A reconcillation will just lead to more pain for both of us.
(12 September 2016)

Adrianne:
How can I make her consciously chose to move on so I can also move on with my life?
(12 September 2016)

Adrianne:
We were both headed for a relationship until i decided to back out since shes not the one I'm looking for and I'm not the one who can fulfill her needs How come this chick still choses not to leave me alone?
(12 September 2016)

Adrianne:
I gave this chick my blessing to find someone better.
(12 September 2016)