To tongue or not to tongue? That is the question

When you kiss, how do you normally employ your tongue? What do you yourself prefer?
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Lannie:
Idk if it's that I'm scared or not ready.
(28 September 2016)

Drusilla:
Is it rude of me to tell fiance I do not want to go visit his family this weekend?
(28 September 2016)

Drusilla:
Its just no fun for me and I would rather stay home this time and let him go out and enjoy his time.
(28 September 2016)

Drusilla:
We also end up arguing every single time either in the car or once we get out there.
(28 September 2016)

Drusilla:
Once I get home, i'm completely touched out and just don't want to be bothered.
(28 September 2016)

Drusilla:
Its definitely a vacation for him but I dread it every time.
(28 September 2016)

Drusilla:
I have a toddler from a previous relationship and its really a hassle with the car ride and I always feel drained when once we get out there until the time we get home.
(28 September 2016)

Drusilla:
His mom and brother visits about every other month for a few days and fiance likes to go out there about every two months.
(28 September 2016)

Drusilla:
My family lives cross country and his family lives 5 hours away.
(28 September 2016)

Annamaria:
TTC after d&c?
(28 September 2016)