why so mercenary?

It's gotten to the point that a standard member can do nothing on this site. You can't even respond to a message anyone sends you or initiate an instant message. What's the point of being on here? If
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Zulema:
I'm a 14 year old girl and am thinking about trying pot for the first time?
(28 November 2016)

Zulema:
How old were you when you tried it for the first time and how did it go?
(28 November 2016)

Zulema:
We're gonna do it in my house when my parents are out for the day next weekend, so it's a safe, familiar environment.
(28 November 2016)

Zulema:
I personally want to do it to have a fun, new experience and because I'm curious.
(28 November 2016)

Zulema:
My two best friends and I have been talking recently about how we think we're ready to try it for the first time.
(28 November 2016)

Doreen:
Please help! I will be as good as dead if he dont talk to me?
(28 November 2016)

Doreen:
What should I reply to his email?
(28 November 2016)

Doreen:
He is an officer and I am enlisted plus female, it's men that ask women out.. I don't know what he want me to do. . What should I do now?
(28 November 2016)

Doreen:
Please help.. I never felt like this for anyone before. . I am socially awkward and don't talk to people much, especially men.. I am very shy types.
(28 November 2016)

Doreen:
I have had crush for 2 years now, he likes me too, everyone in the command were talking about us, cuz He was being so obvious though I tried to act normal as I didnt wanted to get him in trouble. .. but he isn't saying anything in words.
(28 November 2016)