Technical virginity

Many consider a woman to still be a virgin until they have vaginal sex. What did you do until then?
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Janee:
How can I stop missing him and stop this hurt?
(11 May 2017)

Janee:
All I was to him was good and loving.
(11 May 2017)

Janee:
He let me message him, telling him how amazing he is and how much I value him for the past 2 months without saying anything about his new partner.. I feel so stupid.
(11 May 2017)

Janee:
Before it all happened, he promised me that we'll see each other a lot as I'm moving to his city, how we'll have vacation next time, how much he wants me, etc.
(11 May 2017)

Janee:
I am deeply hurt, I was so into this man.
(11 May 2017)

Janee:
I replied that I understand and wish him well.
(11 May 2017)

Janee:
I then decided to bluntly ask whether he wants this to end and he replied that he started seeing someone around 2 months ago (around the same time he had invited me on vacation) and they agreed to be exclusive and not see anyone from their past.
(11 May 2017)

Janee:
After that he started to reply late saying he was sick, etc. and one day stopped replying all together.
(11 May 2017)

Janee:
He got upset about me not going but said he understands.
(11 May 2017)

Janee:
Around 2 months ago he invited me on vacation with him but I had to decline it due to a medical condition.
(11 May 2017)