Sucking vs fucking

Sucking vs fucking which is better?
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Melodie:
I have a narcissistic aunt that my Mom's family is mostly estranged from.Does the estrangement make her (narcissistic aunt) the victim of it?
(2 September 2018)

Melodie:
Her siblings usually, not always, avoid her when she is in town because of her wrath.
(2 September 2018)

Aleida:
My mother's funeral was five years ago this weekend. We were all together. How do I cope with the sadness of us all not being together now?
(2 September 2018)

Aleida:
I have a small apartment and Asperger's so not in a position to host a big family gathering.
(2 September 2018)

Aleida:
Emails and Facebook messages aren't the same as bi-weekly get togethers.
(2 September 2018)

Aleida:
I accept her death, I still struggle with the loss of closeness to everyone else.
(2 September 2018)

Aleida:
Going to her grave is not the same cause everyone else is not there.
(2 September 2018)

Aleida:
It hurts to think to how wonderful things were five years ago and now I will never ever have that again.
(2 September 2018)

Aleida:
Christmas and the July reunion are the only times we all get together.
(2 September 2018)

Aleida:
Yet this weekend no one is together.
(2 September 2018)