...In Which Ginger, sigh. Fuck it.

I tried to stay away, my dear and lovely readers, but shit keeps happening. (I apologize for my language, Carly—I know you’re not fond of my cursing, but I fear that it will get worse before it g
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Glenna:
I got dumped and kept looking at his social media so to distract myself I blocked him on all social media except kept his phone number unblocked.. if a guy cares will he try to contact you?
(29 November 2018)

Tu:
My cousin was sexually abused as a kid as was her mother. Now she goes around with bad men. What is the connection to abuse and dating?
(29 November 2018)

Tu:
The cousin is a cold person but not sure if that is connected or not as her mother is similar.
(29 November 2018)

Tu:
The same person abused her sister.
(29 November 2018)

Tu:
The abuse was a family member on the other side of her family who my mother shockingly allowed me around as a kid.
(29 November 2018)

Tu:
He was arrested for felony drug distribution and grand larceny not long after they broke up over his arrest with a prostitute.
(29 November 2018)

Tu:
A third man was also a loser but no kids with him.
(29 November 2018)

Tu:
She has two kids with two men and one of the men was a drug dealer now in jail for manslaughter in a teens death from drugs and another man had 3 other kids from 3 women and has cheated on her since.
(29 November 2018)

Tu:
Why would the abuse lead to her bad self esteem years later and why might it lead to her dating these really bad men?
(29 November 2018)

Rubi:
I have an aunt estranged from the family. Does this make her kids estranged since we never see them?
(29 November 2018)