"You need a real....." (insert guy outside my dating prefs)

"You need a real....." (insert guy outside my dating prefs)I get messages like this all the time. Why do I NEED some guy I'm not interested in, not attracted to, don't want and is outside of my dating
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Jenee:
She's has only made an attempt to speak to me on the matter after I invited her for lunch.
(7 November 2018)

Jenee:
It's been a month since she's submitted her resignation and 2 weeks since she's left the job.
(7 November 2018)

Jenee:
During this time, she made no effort to speak to me about her thoughts on the matter.
(7 November 2018)

Jenee:
I admit I was tough on her, which was the method of training I received and it worked very well for me and made me a model employee today.
(7 November 2018)

Jenee:
However, 3 months in, she resigns on the grounds that the work environment itself was toxic and also that I was disrespectful and demotivating to her which ultimately has ruined our friendship.
(7 November 2018)

Jenee:
I referred her and she got the job.
(7 November 2018)

Jenee:
She had been unemployed for almost a year and there was an opening in my departement.
(7 November 2018)

Jenee:
Recently a friend of my of 10 years started working together.
(7 November 2018)

Selene:
Everybody's comments.!! Lets hear it.!!?
(7 November 2018)

Yoko:
I have an imaginary boyfriend?
(7 November 2018)