Why don't we just treat people like people

I got accused of harassment of trans people because I said that trans is not a gender it's a transitional stage. So trans women are women and trans men are men. I thought that expanding what it ment t
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Erica:
So my question is if I promise to work on myself everyday and promise to live like I did could I pray to have god bring those people back into my life?
(1 February 2019)

Erica:
Now I would seriously like to get those friends back and retrace my whole life once again.
(1 February 2019)

Erica:
I've lost friends and my job and more.
(1 February 2019)

Erica:
Lately.lots of bad things have been happening due to an illness that I have.
(1 February 2019)

Erica:
So now I have a different question on prayer.
(1 February 2019)

Erica:
By like I said that was the last time I seriously prayed.
(1 February 2019)

Erica:
In doing that I gave up something that was very important to me and truth is with the serious dedication it came true.
(1 February 2019)

Erica:
Mostly meaning I haven't prayed seriously in many years Last time I prayed seriously I asked for help in my future career.
(1 February 2019)

Erica:
So truth is I'm new to the whole prayer thing.
(1 February 2019)

Setsuko:
My gay friend came out to me and I don't want to be close but I don't want to hurt his feelings?
(1 February 2019)