The Dilemma

So.... we have been at this for over a year, and still have not found whatever it is we are looking for, maybe because we are still not sure exactly what that is. It probably doesn't help that what hu
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Violette:
As of now I live with my mom and stepdad in Florida.
(13 March 2019)

Dessie:
My husband emotionally and verbally abuses me weekly, I dont want to have sex with him bcuz of it, hes tempted to watch porn after 2 weeks?
(13 March 2019)

Dessie:
It's only been 2 weeks and I think he should be more focused on healing our marriage than on getting off.
(13 March 2019)

Dessie:
He told me hes tempted to watch porn because hes so horny.
(13 March 2019)

Dessie:
So I have not given sex for 2 weeks while I try to heal from this cycle of abuse he claims is over for good.
(13 March 2019)

Dessie:
Other than those 30 days he took off from abuse it has been continual.
(13 March 2019)

Dessie:
The longest we have gone without abuse was 1 month once.
(13 March 2019)

Dessie:
The longest we have gone without sex amidst the abuse has been 2 weeks.
(13 March 2019)

Dessie:
We've been married for the last 3 years and he has been verbally and emotionally abusive to me on a weekly basis sometimes every 2 days for at least 2 years straight.
(13 March 2019)

Lianne:
Why are men such promiscious whores who dont want anything serious? Have decent loving men died out???
(13 March 2019)