Backhanded Compliment?

He said:I decided to send you a message because I have to be realistic. Some hot girl isn't going to be interested in me - especially a younger one. So, I go for aging women who are probably losing
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Johnette:
Its been on my mind the last couple days and Im unsure of how to deal with this.
(17 June 2019)

Johnette:
I know shes just going for a couple days and that she is happy with me.
(17 June 2019)

Johnette:
I just find it hard to trust someone that puts themselves in that type of situation.
(17 June 2019)

Johnette:
Now I feel more uneasy about the entire thing.
(17 June 2019)

Johnette:
Now she sees it my way so im glad, but before,ikes.
(17 June 2019)

Johnette:
And the type of stuff she thought was ok was mind boggling to me.
(17 June 2019)

Johnette:
We had a discussion about boundaries.
(17 June 2019)

Johnette:
I do not go to bars and believe that nothing beneficial to a relationship ever comes out of those types of places.
(17 June 2019)

Johnette:
Where she plans to hit up those places.
(17 June 2019)

Johnette:
She is planning a Vegas trip with another girl.
(17 June 2019)