SMH-006 Damned if i do.....Damned if I don't (Letting someone down gently)

I once dated a woman, for a long time. It was off and mostly on for about 8 years.Once of the routine question she would occasional ask me was "Why don't you choose me for marriage??"Well as you can i
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Anne:
So I shouted him off and he broke down apologizing and begged me not to tell his girlfriend who is also my friend.
(27 June 2019)

Kia:
What do I do since I got a huge crush on her?
(27 June 2019)

Elda:
My asshole of an ex dumped me last month for someone younger and more fertile... should I just lie about my age then since guys apparently?
(27 June 2019)

Shayna:
My boyfriend is 47 with no job and no car! Should i leave him?
(27 June 2019)

Shayna:
He is not the best for me in that aspect.
(27 June 2019)

Shayna:
I love him so much for the way he treats me but i need to think about myself financially.
(27 June 2019)

Shayna:
He has 4 kids and just got divorced.
(27 June 2019)

Shayna:
So spending money, food on our dates and every little thing we do sucks.
(27 June 2019)

Shayna:
He lives 30 mins away and lives with his daughter.
(27 June 2019)

Shayna:
Its so hard because im 21 taking care of my mom paying all tbe bills.
(27 June 2019)