Why Aren't All Forms Of Abuse Acceptable?

This was on my spirit tonight after talking with a female friend of mine who is not on this site when it comes to physical abuse or any abuse for that matter!“Leave Him!” is the first reaction mos
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Kimber:
Mind you, this guy is simple minded so having enough money saved up for past 3 weeks means he had enough money to buy some cheap fast food and maybe some instant noodle.
(5 August 2019)

Kimber:
So when I told him he really needs to save his money instead of pissing it away on weed, he to no ones surprise got defensive instead of admitting fault and accepting change.
(5 August 2019)

Kimber:
He simply just rents a room off someone from craigslist.
(5 August 2019)

Kimber:
He has no kids and does not own a place.
(5 August 2019)

Kimber:
It's like, you're 37 years old, and you literally have no backup money to even buy gas?
(5 August 2019)

Kimber:
So when I texted the group to meetup, he replied back that he can't because he has no gas money.
(5 August 2019)

Kimber:
He's been homeless at least twice that I've known of and is known by everyone to just whine and never accept fault.
(5 August 2019)

Kimber:
I'm sure he lost his job because he smokes A LOT of weed, yes even when driving and doing his job.
(5 August 2019)

Kimber:
My friend is 37 years old and just lost his random odd job of delivery service for fast food and grocery.
(5 August 2019)

Kimber:
We all know that one family or friend who just can't grow up and you just cant hold back on disappointment and frustration towards.
(5 August 2019)