Double Standards

It really gets me when people don't or can't step outside themselves and look at what they are doing. They can't comprehend how they are affecting the people around them. Is it selfishness, an egocen
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Mallie:
My cousin is overweight and she travels and post selfies with her friends, but when I was chubby my parents and my relatives insult me and tease me until I lost weight.
(14 September 2019)

Mara:
My absent mother wants me to visit for the holidays. Should I go see her again?
(14 September 2019)

Mara:
I know she's been living alone for about 10 years and she loves it and she prefers it that way.
(14 September 2019)

Mara:
I mean she stood me up for dinner and I waited for her for 3 hours then she seemed irritated at me when I'm around her.
(14 September 2019)

Mara:
I mean I really want to see my mother again I mean I really need her but I don't know.
(14 September 2019)

Mara:
If I tell him that my mom wants me to visit her I'm pretty sure he's going to say no because she's hurt me long enough.
(14 September 2019)

Mara:
I didn't tell my dad about this because he would go ballistic if I told him.
(14 September 2019)

Mara:
So anyways I told my mama I'll have to see what happens.
(14 September 2019)

Mara:
I wasn't so sure what to think because one, she seemed irritated when I'm around her and number two she stuck me up for dinner while I was visiting her in England.
(14 September 2019)

Mara:
So she was asking me if I wanted to come see her for the holidays in December because she is unable to come visit.
(14 September 2019)