When that first date just doesn't work out from an old broad's persective

Now most of you know I am an old broad and I have opinions that a lot don't agree with but this happened to me and I had to get it off my chest. I haven't dated in almost 5 years not because no one as
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Carolyn:
I fished up some dude there ( or he fished me up ) We had a little...fun...u know where it went on from there.
(31 July 2016)

Lyndsay:
Please answer my question about this guy!?
(31 July 2016)

Kandy:
Was he using me or does he really care for me?
(31 July 2016)

Kandy:
I feel like I made a mistake but idk if he really likes me we only talked 2 times afterwards idk if he don't wanna talk to me or not he does work and he always be with my brother but what about the times he's not?
(31 July 2016)

Kandy:
Keep in mind I'm 17 and he's 20 and I wasn't thinking to much of anything but I hanged out with him last Friday and we ended up hooking up (please don't judge) I told him no repeatly after 2 hours I gave up.
(31 July 2016)

Kandy:
Now up untill July 15 I recharged my mind and decided I will talk to him and hang out with him.
(31 July 2016)

Kandy:
I use to dub him most of the times and before he did come to me when he was having a relationship problem, but sadly it ended.
(31 July 2016)

Kandy:
He always use to text me on Facebook but I was at all not interested.
(31 July 2016)

Kandy:
So I'm 17 and my brothers friend has always tried to talk to me since last year.
(31 July 2016)

Jamee:
Updated.. Seeing an older guy.. Really need advice!!?
(31 July 2016)