What does it take

What does it take to hook up from this site. I have tried and tried. I have tried to strike up conversions on i.m. and in the chat rooms, but have had no luck. I am about to give up.
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Carman:
How do you give each other room to grow in a marriage? with kids?
(8 November 2017)

Carman:
We can't afford counselling right now so please don't say marriage counselling.
(8 November 2017)

Carman:
We've been together for 10 years, baby is 2 years old.
(8 November 2017)

Carman:
How do you give each other room to grow in a marriage?
(8 November 2017)

Carman:
We are still trying to work things out, don't think we are going to divorce...just still understanding and working out our emotions and thoughts.
(8 November 2017)

Carman:
Going through the aftermath of infidelity in a marriage, we realized we both need to grow.
(8 November 2017)

Inell:
What are these girls doing in this?
(8 November 2017)

Tayna:
My ex keeps looking after saying this?
(8 November 2017)

Eulalia:
What man do this?
(8 November 2017)

Christy:
I hope you all had a good day today, and hope you have a better one tomorrow.
(8 November 2017)